For the One Who Feels Behind
Jul 07, 2025
I see you.
I see you scrolling, your heart doing that familiar little flip.
I see that pang of "why not me?" that hits when you see another entrepreneur's beautiful win—the launch, the vacation, the milestone.
This is for the part of you that immediately translates their success into your failure.
And this is her invocation.
Say it aloud. Let the words untangle the knot of comparison in your chest...
I’m done measuring my chapter one against someone else's chapter ten.
I’m done believing that another's light somehow dims my own.
I’m done with the shame spiral that follows the thought, "I should be further along by now."
I'm done letting a highlight reel on a screen dictate the value of my own sacred, messy, human journey.
I'm done pretending it doesn't sting. I'm done pretending I have it all figured out.
I am ready to see comparison as a cosmic compass.
I am ready to understand that the trigger is not a critique, but a clue.
I'm ready to see another's expansion as proof of what is possible for me, too.
I'm ready to ask, "What part of their freedom am I ready to claim for myself?" instead of "Why don't I have that yet?"
I'm ready to let jealousy be a signpost that points directly to my deepest desires.
I am ready to celebrate them, and then gently, lovingly, return to my own work.
I am ready to trust my own divine timing.
If you felt a "YES" rising in your body as you read this, please know you are feeling the energy of the day.
Right now, the cosmos is asking us to dream bigger (thank you, Sagittarius Moon), while at the same time, it's poking at our deepest insecurities to see if we're ready for those dreams (hello, Gate of Provocation). This combination is why the feeling of comparison is so potent today.
It's clarity disguised as comparison.
This blog post is the "what" and the "why." It's the permission slip to see this feeling differently.
But if you're ready for the "how"—how to work with this energy, how to use it to your advantage, and how to navigate the rest of this powerful month—that's what the July Business Energy Bundle is for.
It’s the practical magic—the video forecast, the "Refining Your Message" workbook, the energy calendar—that will help you turn this insight into lasting confidence.
Don't let this potent energy pass you by. Let this be the month you finally feel clear and confident in your own unique path.
Yours in confidence,
Charity